Conversations with my Gayru (4): Our Careers Today, rushing straight from work, I didn’t have time to change into what Teri calls my gayer clothes. Originally, Teri and I were finally supposed to cover the topic “Cute little girlfriend does not a straight man make”; but when Teri sees me in my wrinkled suit, he decides we’d better discuss “Our Careers.”        Granted, my suit needs pressing, but in its defense it’s a mo...

Conversations with my Gayru: It’s a Start This is the story of a gay man and his rise to self-appreciation and enhanced gayness. It’s also a dialogue with Davie, my dearest and, according to Davie, my gayest friend. And that’s why I’ve come to him now. I’m hopelessly “gender-challenged,” as Davie puts it. I’m a gay man who just can’t seem to get gay. No, not in the attracted-to-men-with-great-asses way, but in all the other ways that make...