Journal, Diary, & Blogging / !HAVE YOU NO HEART?!

SO, since I’ve been single, which has been a year officially..or it will be a year in a few days, I have met guys..of course! I’m human..and pretty =) Anyways, so I’ve met guys & what not, gone out on dates, hung out, whatever you want to call it. Now I haven’t had a BOYFRIEND just yet, but I would think if you’re hanging out with a guy for a pretty minute and someone no longer has interest in the other then that person would be kind enough to inform that significant other of their change of heart.
But NO! Will someone please let me know why GUYS will just stop calling/texting you out of the blue when they arent interested in you anymore? Atleast girls will give you a possible BS excuse like “I’m too busy for a boyfriend right now” or “Let’s be friends.” They might be BS excuses, but it doesnt leave the guy wondering, creating assumptions that they’ll never get answers to because the other doesnt want to answer your calls anymore. So fellahs, !have you NO heart!
I do not condone girls giving whack comments like “we should be friends.” If you arent interested in someone then you need to MAN-UP and tell the person why.
For example, tell the guy that you don’t think it would work between the two of you because he does something that irritates you, just tell the truth!! Don’t leave the person hanging by deleting their number out of no where. What sucks the most (so I’ve heard =/) is when you hangout with someone and the next day they arent answering your texts/calls. It makes you think “what did I DO”, when YOU didn’t do anything; they just had a problem. Never think it’s YOUR fault for someone not liking you. Everyone can’t be pleased, just like you won’t be interested in everyone.
In the end, Ladies & Gentlemen, if you lose interest in the person you’re chillen with, TELL THEM!! Don’t come out the blue and not answer their calls one day without giving them a reason why you don’t want to talk to them; you dont want that done to you… right?